When is the time to give up? 🚶🏻🧱❌

 

I always I've listened to the history of self-successful in which an invincible and strong man could beat his fears and conquer all his dreams. Histories like that, we have found in every movie or book, and continuously say to us that everything is possible when we propose ourselves.


The libraries around the world are full of self-help books, many of them are best-sellers, I won't discuss the fact of some of the books could be useful tools that can help in some of our problems. But, the idealization of a life full of goals and relates could be doing think wrong about what is the true purpose of our dreams.


But, what happens when we give up or postpone our goals? when is time to throw in the towel?


Sometimes, we found ourselves in circumstances that do us to take a step to the side or postponed our dreams for a while, we have to recognize the pros and cons of following to do whereas whatever thing that we're doing.


I recognize that on many occasions I'm struggling with my mind about whether or not to give up on some situations, and I have to admit, I'm very obsessed with my ideas a lot of times. I've had want stop for a while and try to analyze if whatever I'm doing could me go to the place that I actually want.


There were many other things in which we often we're struggling and perhaps many of that things maybe don't worth it. Try to meditate about that, choose wisely your battles, and don't be ashamed of other people's think. 






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