Learn throughout failures ❌☠️

 We live in a society that punishes failure, avoids completely talking about this topic, and only is focused on the idea that success is a way that is reachable with only a few steps. Everybody talks about their dreams and achievements, what they get through their lives and how far we are in their lives. 

The only mention of the word fail is a synonym of loose, defeat, thinness, or weakness. But the truth is that our own lives were constructed on failures, those experiences we build our lives and teach us about the importance of learning over our errors. 

People avoid talking about that, and they think that this topic is a specie of "taboo". Personally, I have experimented with my own the times that I have been struggling with failure, In fact, every task or goal that can I do is destiny to failure, is a reality that you must afford.

In my almost 28, I have failed in so many things that I can't even remember the times that this punches me in my face. Sometimes, I avoid doing certain activities because I had a fear of disappointment if I fail, that was a wrong idea. Actually, I don't realize that I was losing much more whereas I don't try to do those things.

The experiences that we can get when we tried to do new and defiant things is an enriching and most valuable tool that we could learn when we are young, or even when we don't.

Don't be afraid about whether you completed successfully or not your goals, avoid the bad critics or toxic opinions about your dreams. Your heart and mind are the most confident guides. Remember we learn more about our failures than our success.


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