What I've learned from my friends🍟🐣🐣

What I've learned from my friends🍟🐣🐣


I do not consider myself a very social and extrovert person, in fact, I have a few people in my social circle that I truly consider 'friends'. Since I ended my bachelor's degree my reduced circle of friends was still contracted more. But, every person that still forms part of my life has shown me a lot of things and experiences that have helped me to grow up and ripen.


There are various the reason that I consider that my friends are better than me (a lot, actually) but on this occasion, I will only describe three


One of these, maybe the patience and understanding of the things that actually make me angry and anxious, most of my friends always at least usually keep them calm. This is a virtue in these times and always I learn something new from them.


Another lesson that I have learned about my friends could be, spontaneity on some occasions and detachment about things, often sharing money or things, even part of their time when someone needs it. They are always willing to give me a hand when I need it or bring me advice when I'm in trouble.


One of the most remarkable values ​​that always surprises me is their relationship with their family, I don't remember any discussion or fighting when I stayed at a friend's house, even when they had the occasion to do it or claim for things that happened, they always keep smiling and willing to keep calm.


I have to learn a lot of things from them and be grateful to show me that important values ​​form part of my life. I consider my friends an important part of my myself, even when I have conflicts with my family and I don't have someone to tell about my problems. I always will be grateful for life putting me in their way.

~S.




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